Someone was so proud of me Today!

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 Hii Mahi,

Today I am so proud of you, so proud of you for being who you are and believing in yourself, for trusting your instincts, and always for just being you and nobody else. I just want to tell you that please remember that no matter if anybody ever supports you or not I will always be there for you, I will always be just a pen away, I will always be just a keyboard away. Every time you express yourself, all those moments when you refuse to fit into the conventional standards of pre-decided societal norms which were relevant a long time ago but not anymore you make me proud you bring a smile to my face, and my eyes sparkle as if I just saw a golden retriever puppy passing by on the streets down the lane. You are unique and different from anybody else I know, you are confident, you are brave and most importantly you are human. The empathy you hold in your heart for not just other people around you but all creatures on this earth, that fire I see in your eyes every time you see someone suffering is so rare. You need to love yourself more, and you need to trust me when I tell you that no one can be you. The way you live your life, handling everything with so much ease all the obstacles that come your way you stand strong and survive through all of them, sometimes you fall but then I see you get up with greater confidence, sometimes you cry but then you wipe your tears off and take selfies because your skin looks the best after that mad meltdown, sometimes you get angry and shout but then you apologize and that brings you closer to the people you love, sometimes you just want to crawl into that big hole and never come out but then you realize that life outside that hole is much more fun and happening and also a lot less suffocating. You will always have low points in life but that doesn’t mean that you should lose hope and end your search for the happy things that are just a few miles away. I will always be there for you because we all need a friend to rely on and a shoulder to cry on. Never question yourself if people do not understand you because just like you everybody else is unique too, they also have a certain way of seeing things, life on their side is different, and it’s nothing how you think it is. But also always remember that you are the only person who cares about your opinions your likes and dislikes and therefore you have to be the one to fight for them, never settle for less, never compromise, not only do you let yourself down but also all those people who support you including me when you do that. Always try to see things from other people’s side also you never know what someone else is going through unless you have the will to care about them. Fight for yourself, argue when you do not agree on something but keep in mind that the other person is the same as you they are just the lead hero of a different movie, unless you wish to watch their movie you will always fight for the wrong reasons never do that because that way you lose. Appreciate other people and admire them for their good qualities, but do not forget yourself cause you deserve love too and if you feel you can’t, remember I am just a click away. BE YOURSELF, AND ALWAYS BE PROUD OF BEING YOU. XOXO💕💖

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